HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY: Now…Unshred My Heart!


Isn’t it great when real life works out. Picture it: You are Hollywood’s Golden Girl. You’re on location in a picture postcard setting on the Riviera. Your leading man is one of the most handsome and dashing leading men in the history of Hollywood. You’ve got a director who is world-reknown for making successful suspense thrillers. And what happens? The Prince of that country you’re filming in falls head over heels for you. He’s crushing on you, gives you the bum’s rush with promises of royalty and riches and children. And you? You bite. You take your Oscar, leave Hollywood, leave your country, leave your career…all to become a Princess. And you live pretty happily ever after.

<< Sigh! >>  If only the movies could be like that…

ROMAN HOLIDAY ( Greg & Audrey )

Roman Holiday is really a very very simple story.  Gregory Peck plays a reporter in Rome, who kind of lives off the cuff. He loses at poker, owes rent money, borrows from his editor, borrows against his future salary. By sheer blind luck, happens upon a girl drunk ( or so he thinks ) on the sidewalks of Rome. He reluctantly but gentlemanly takes her back to his place, where he discovers in the morning she is the Princess whose made front page news for missing during her state trip to Italy.

Audrey Hepburn plays the Princess. She’s a waif of a girl. Beautiful and delicate as a fawn or ballerina. Childlike. The schedule and rigidity of the crown and its duties are weighing the poor kid down. She can’t make her own decisions. She’s even medicated to sleep. Of course she has to make a break for it, and does. She’s out on her own for the first time. She tastes freedom though it’s a little wobbly. I know they’re both hiding information from each other, but Audrey is seeking independence at no one else’s expense. It’s unsettling to me to see Peck know who she is, and use this for his own gains. He brings in his friend to take pictures of their excursion ( played by Eddie Albert. ) It’s like she’s being watched without knowing she’s being watched. She’s just a vulnerable little thing and I feel bad that in her journey, she’s being used.

ROMAN HOLIDAY ( Greg & Audrey ) - IROMAN HOLIDAY ( Greg & Audrey ) - IIAI needn’t have worried (never saw the movie in its entirety before). What turns the tide is during an outdoor dance party, he dances with her. And when her country’s secret service attempts to “kidnap” her back to the castle she fights; and Peck comes to the rescue. Pangs of conscience? More like he’s fallen for her. She’s fallen for him too. They escape. They kiss.

ROMAN HOLIDAY ( LI )The jig is up for both of them. No more hiding…at least on her  part. They take the long ride back to the Embassy where again they embrace and kiss. THAT is where their goodbye must take place. They both know this is over. But it’s the movies…and we live in hope. She leaves the car, and the camera stares at that empty corner hoping she’ll come back around it to run into his arms. But she doesn’t. She’s asked him not to come around that corner to get her. He doesn’t.

Peck thinks long and hard about what he must do…

 He can relive the experience with his photographer:


“She’s fair game Joe. It’s always open season on princesses.”

But we see he’s chosen to live inside his memories. Her foray into real life has given her a new-found strength. She’s no longer child-like. She’s owning her power as princess and it shows when she’s questioned by her staff with:

“You  must appreciate that I have my duty to perform. Just as her Royal Highness has her duty.”


“Correction. I trust you will not find it necessary to use that word again. Were I not completely aware of my duty to my family, my country…I would not have come back tonight. Or, indeed, ever again.”

This is the silent sequence of discovery, and undertstanding, and love; she discovers who Peck really is when she meets with the press after her reappearance at the embassy. For a girl whose just made a few inconsequential movies before this one…and is given a starring role in a Wyler film, Hepburn handles the scene with grace, dignity, subtlety. It’s all in her face…those eyes.



But then again girls…look who she’s looking at; an actor who was a great support to her during the filming. Audrey Hepburn is a beautiful woman and Wyler shows her in all her glory. But my heart chokes up at Gregory Peck. He’s the one who is going to be wrecked. He’s the one who’s going to be left. He looks at her. His look is absolutely unwavering. He does not take his eyes off her. Now she knows who he is. And with his open-face unwavering gaze, he bares himself.

A reporter asks her this question:

“And what, in the opinion of Your Highness, is the outlook for friendship among nations.”

The Princess’ and Reporter’s coded conversation says it all:


 “I have every faith in it, as I have faith in relationships between people.”

“May I say, speaking for my own press service, we believe that Your Highness’ faith will not be unjustified.”

“I am so glad to hear you say it.”

The worse is yet to come for this love that will not be. Director Wyler puts us in line with Peck to watch and wait for her to greet him. Wyler takes his time with this; builds up a little suspense. It’s wrenching and aching to watch because we’re on that line too.


He won’t betray her trust and has given her proof of that. He has to be strong for both of them if she is to go on. And her having experienced this gives her the strength to go on. They can’t go on together. But their experience will help them  both go on…together.


Click below to see my list of my favorite romantic films or go to my YouTube page and scroll down to this week’s video, about Classic Romances. Enjoy!

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14 thoughts on “HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY: Now…Unshred My Heart!

  1. I love BRIEF ENCOUNTER…There is also the theme of men returning from the war and wives not knowing how to relate to their husbands, now changed by the horrors they had witnessed. The ending is so sad and yet so right and true to the characters. If it was made today the husband would be a brute and she would end up with the Trevor Howard character, but then it wouldn’t have the same impact.


    • Hello there – I agree with you on all points. That restraint the film shows is just killer. Today they’d certainly make brutes and nags…just so we’ll know who to root for. Luckily for us classic film fans, we understood subtlety. We have to; the Hays Code didn’t let us see a thing. You know what film I just saw recently that had a scene of lovers saying goodbye but unable to speak it: “Fallen Idol.” Yes, mean ol’ Ralph ( “The Heiress” ) Richardson was so totally in love and because his young charge was with him, he couldn’t say a proper goodbye to the woman he loved. It’s a heart wrenching scene. “Brief Encounter” — a heartbreaker! Thanx.

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  2. “Casablanca”. Its a decent movie. If not for Henreid, Bergman, Bogart, Raines, Lorre, Veidt, and Curtis and several superb character actors it would not amount to much, pretty dull actually. As for romance I’d give it a ‘7’, after all it has a pretty good beat and you can dance to it. If you’re under 40 you probably have no idea what I’m talking about! Okay, okay, just kidding. This movie remains one of the best ever! Great chemistry, acting, directing, its got it all! When it comes to intrigue and romance there is none better, individual tastes and preferences in consideration, and it remains one of the most popular movies in film history and rightly so, so there!


    • Hiya Kid. “Casablanca” – one of the great stories. Without the big stars, you say, the story might be pretty dull. I dunno. All movies need some good actors to put over a story. And this one has them in spades. But think about it, the story is pretty compelling. A man’s ex-lover comes to see him about papers that could set her husband free. Can she get ’em or not. Again, this might not be a classic without Bogart, Bergman, Henreid, Rains, Lorre and Veidt in charge some seventy-odd years later. But the story itsel, the plot machinations are pretty good.

      L0L! Your American Bandstand reference went straight to the heart of my memories. “Casablanca” has a pretty good beat and my heart dances to it. I’ll give it an “8”.


  3. Thanks Theresa and Happy Valentines Day.As usual your essays were informative and fun,and all three films deserve to be the classics that they did become.A little real life drama comes to mind where another actress wins Oscar,gives up Hollywood career,deserts country.and becomes a real life princess…and that of course would be (our) Philly’s own Grace Kelly.


    • Hi there Bob. Thanks for reading. Glad you’re enjoying my essays and picked up on my Princess Grace reference. Appreciate your comments. Thanxx! And a good Valentine’s Day to you as well.


  4. Just finished watching ‘Casablanca’ for the hundreth time. Well-written, T. Bogie unleashed his heart, and then had to unleash it again….


  5. I’ll never forget seeing the first act of La Boheme with two men, even older than I. Though it is not the sad part of the story, the three of us were in tears before the act ended.


  6. Oh, Roman Holiday…watching Peck swallow while he’s on that line, willing her the strength to carry on…he has the most expressive Adams apple in history of the movies.


    • Now THAT is the best commentary I’ve ever heard on this movie. L0L!! Peck is an actor down to his Adam’s Apple. ( I’m amazed that Wyler kept us on that line as she greeted the reporters. That would NEVER go in today’s movies. The suspense… )


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